When we move towards a specific goal it is quite natural to compare ourselves to the people around us.
What kind of emotions are you feeling when you compare yourself to other expats who speak French? Do you feel more of a positive or a negative feeling?
Comparison can bring up negative feelings:
😒 – Dissatisfaction
😒 – Jealousy
😒 – Low self-esteem
Should you stop comparing yourself to other French learners?
I don’t think it’s interesting to try to stop comparing yourself to other French learners because it’s a natural thing to do.
On the other hand, I think it is interesting to analyze these negative emotions to take stock of your current needs and start implement a good action plan.
Do you want to hear more about this topic … and much more!?
Cathy is a certified Neurolanguage coach® (as am I) and since our beginnings we have enjoyed a very valuable relationship as colleagues/accountability partners. And just like French learners, we have sometimes compared ourselves. So our personal experiences inspired this conversation, recorded for Cathy’s podcast “My Polyglot Life”.
Watch it 👇
00:00 | Presentation Ines Lluch Del Campo, certified Advanced Neurolanguage Coach®
3:15 | Working with an accountability partner
4:15 | What is the difference in approach between a traditional teacher and a coach?
7:20 how comparison can arouse insecurities and tips for reducing the stress caused by comparison
13:25 | Positive aspects of comparison and working with a partner
Or listen to this podcast episode.
